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Prior to the arrival of a new baby, it is difficult to predict how a family pet could react to the newest family member. Some pets may become jealous, some may become frightened, some might get aggressive, and some pets might adjust to the new baby right away. The pet’s reaction depends on both the pet’s personality and the pet’s role in the family prior to the arrival of the baby. If the pet was the center of attention and was treated like the baby of the family, the arrival of an infant might be more difficult than if the pet was in a home with other children. Careful preparation is essential in helping to make a smooth transition for the pet.
First, when the big baby announcement is made and you begin to inform friends and family about the arrival of the new baby, you should also begin to prepare your pet. Gradually decrease the amount of energy and time given to the pet so that by the time the baby is born, the pet is used to you splitting your time between the dog and other obligations. If the pet receives all of the attention until the baby is born, and then the time with the animal is drastically cut, the animal may then begin to exhibit inappropriate behaviors and stress reactions.
Second, have the pet begin to develop closer relationships with other members of the household, especially if the animal was closest to the parents of the new baby. If there are other children in the house, this might be a good time for the other children to start to feed, walk, brush, and even sleep with the pet. Once the baby arrives, the transition will be easier for the animal because of the close bond formed with the other members of the household.
Once the baby has been born, swaddle the baby in a blanket or dress the baby in a new outfit. After several hours, remove the blanket or outfit and have someone bring that object home for the pet to smell. This will help the animal recognize the smell of the new baby upon the baby’s arrival home.
Once you arrive home with the baby, have someone else carry the baby into another room of the house, while you greet your pet in a calm environment. Hold the item of clothing the animal smelled the day before and allow it to smell the item again. Then slowly bring the baby close to the pet, allowing the animal to smell the baby, and rewarding the animal for being gentle. If your pet is showing signs of stress or anxiety, do not force the interaction.
By the time you’re ready to send out that baby announcement, your pet may be well adjusted and even protective of the baby. Simply make the introduction as peaceful and rewarding as possible for your pet, and the transition should be easier, even for the most attached pets.
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